Trigger Mapping
Identify your personal anger triggers and create a proactive response plan
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Therapeutic Anger Management • Wellness Programme
Trigger Mapping Worksheet
Therapeutic worksheet
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Why this worksheet matters
Most anger feels instant and uncontrollable. But it follows patterns. By mapping your triggers before you're in the heat of the moment, you can create a concrete plan for pausing and responding differently. Research on implementation intentions suggests that rehearsed “if–then” plans can make intended responses easier to carry out.
Situation: Being criticised at work
Specific trigger: "When my manager points out errors in front of the team"
Underneath: "Shame. Fear of being seen as incompetent."
Body signals: Face flushes, jaw clenches, defensive posture
1. PAUSE: Take a breath. Say "Thank you, I'll look into that."
2. RESPOND: "Can we discuss specifics after the meeting?"
3. RECOVER: Remind myself that feedback ≠ failure.
1Trigger Situation
Afterwards — once the surge passed
The fields above capture the before. Anger has a tail, and the aftermath is often where shame lives. Naming it makes the cost visible and easier to change.
Your 3-Step Response Plan
2Trigger Situation
Afterwards — once the surge passed
The fields above capture the before. Anger has a tail, and the aftermath is often where shame lives. Naming it makes the cost visible and easier to change.
Your 3-Step Response Plan
3Trigger Situation
Afterwards — once the surge passed
The fields above capture the before. Anger has a tail, and the aftermath is often where shame lives. Naming it makes the cost visible and easier to change.
Your 3-Step Response Plan
Look for the pattern
One trigger is an incident. Three triggers show a theme — and the theme usually points at the root.
Tips for success
- Rehearse your response plans when you're calm. Mental rehearsal builds new neural pathways.
- Keep this worksheet somewhere visible so you can review it before known trigger situations.
- Update your plans as you learn what works and what doesn't.
- Celebrate every time you use a plan, even partial success counts.
Pair this with
- The STOP Skill worksheet — the in-the-moment pause your plan needs.
- Anger log — track these triggers daily for a fortnight.
Sources & further reading
- Novaco, R. W. (1975). Anger control: The development and evaluation of an experimental treatment. Lexington Books.Trigger–appraisal–arousal model behind the mapping structure.
- Deffenbacher, J. L., Oetting, E. R., & DiGiuseppe, R. A. (2002). Principles of empirically supported interventions applied to anger management. The Counseling Psychologist, 30(2), 262–280.
- Gollwitzer, P. M., & Sheeran, P. (2006). Implementation intentions and goal achievement: A meta-analysis of effects and processes. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 38, 69–119.Evidence base for the pre-planned "if–then" pause / respond / recover steps.
- Beck, J. S. (2020). Cognitive behavior therapy: Basics and beyond (3rd ed.). Guilford Press.
This worksheet is an original RootCalm adaptation of published, evidence-based methods. It reproduces no third-party worksheet text or layout.
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